HURRICANE LOVE

So as I have been telling everyone I come in contact with....4 more alarm clocks until my big vacation of the year, I don't have to tell you how desperately I need this one. Yes, we all need a break from society, uh I mean, reality...but this has got to be one well deserved getaway. As I sit and write this, my head is pounding from the pressure of Hurricane Hanna moving our way up the east coast. My body has become putty and my eyes burn as though I have been staring at the sun all day.

But, no worries. Storm pressure systems, hurricanes and yes...Wedding Anniversary vacation getaways all have something in common. Bittersweet. I am not one to take many risks, but this is one, well, sort of traditional risk for me and my husband. This year we are celebrating ten years of wedded bliss and as I look back on our trips, I realize most were surrounded by some sort of storm system. Our honeymoon to Cancun; leaving as the black clouds moved in and the plane wouldn't start. Five years; the first time for my husband on a cruise ship. We headed north and into a storm that rocked the ship more than I have ever seen. In an almost sarcastic manner, the staff decided to use Titanic as the theme for the formal dinner. Nice touch Royal Caribbean.

Yes, we got married during hurricane season and that has a lot to do with it. But, I also like to think that our passionate, opinionated, many times, argumentative nature towards each other is almost so powerful that it follows us when we celebrate our love for one another. Silly, to you maybe, but for me, it all means something.

So upon my return, I will be sure to update you with the pictures and stories of what just may be our most interesting getaway yet. In the meantime, thank Hurricane Ike for us and please tell Josephine to keep heading North.

VIEQUES, ON OUR WAY

After much reading, I have finally made up my mind for my upcoming ten year wedding anniversary. This is what I know so far, any input from those who have had experience on this tiny, Puerto Rican island, feel free to comment.

Isla de Vieques (21 miles long & 5 miles wide), free from the US Navy's bombing practices a few years back has given tourists and locals the ability to enjoy it's tranquil beaches once again. Not easy to find when researching traveling destinations, and rightfully so. I am actually quite proud for finding it, but also very aware that more people will. We know that our stay will be memorable, but am hoping our footprints will not.

Vieques is describe as the way Puerto Rico once was. Lush, tropical mango trees growing as wild as the horses running the beaches. Several drinking establishments lining the beach for a lazy afternoon happy hour or an evening dinner of fresh, grilled fare. The kind of people that enjoy a good conversation over watching useless nonsense on tv. No golf courses, there are plenty of beaches to make your own sport. No chain restaurants or shopping malls, there are plenty of things to do without spending your money.

The rain pool at the Inn on Blue Horizon overlooking the Atlantic
Wild horses run free across the bluff

Seems to me, if you want to go to a place that has frozen in time, the way things used to be, Vieques is where you will find it.

SAVE ROOM

One thing I enjoy, being home after a long week of the grind while taking in the surroundings in the comfort of my home. Lying around, wine in hand, soothed by the earthy colors of the walls and aromatic smells of the kitchen.

Pictures make up 75% of my home's decor. Each area of each room has it's own individual style of display. Between family in the dining room and weddings under the Eiffel tower clock, photos of destinations visited float along the shelves providing me the serene backdrop that forces me into my daily daydream.

There are a few spots that remain empty. Those areas of white canvas capture my gaze the most, allowing me to complete the picture of my own ideas on what destination will fill that spot next. There is nothing more fulfilling than capturing that perfect moment of a vacation and knowing you will have plenty of space to frame it in for those much enjoyed days at home.

WELCOME THUNDERSTORMS

So it's a beautiful Spring day. The sun is shining and there are no plans on the agenda. It's good thing. But, I can't help to think back to last weekend. Gloomy, raining and chilly are what most people were describing the weather. Most people, however, weren't at the shore without an alarm clock.

It was one of those peaceful weekends I haven't had in a long time, and I was even there with my husband. Just kidding, of course. There were no agendas, no places we needed to be and no noise. The gloomy sky and distant lightening illuminating over the tops of the vacant condominiums were a calming effect. We knew we had a safe and quiet retreat to hide back to. We stayed in the old lighthouse at Fagers Island on 56 street. Until now, Fagers was only a regular place to go for sunsets and martinis. Now it has a new feel to me. Situated next to the brand new condominiums Fagers calls "The Edge", the lighthouse has that nostalgic feel when you walk in staring at the rafters above. We stayed in a bay front room overlooking nothing more than just that, along with a few rowdy pigeons. We were on the second floor, below the more spacious and expensive suites with fireplace and double jacuzzi,placed appropriately, next to the king size bed. But, that didn't take away from our king suite overlooking a beautiful view. Even the decor was serene and peaceful in white fabrics, marble and lots of mirrors! The mirrors add a nice touch when housekeeping comes in for turn down service to light the candles in your room. But I have to admit, I am now on a strict diet after seeing a little too much of myself over the weekend.

As for the sunsets, we didn't have to visit the restaurant this time for that show. So we were still wanting a reason to go. Lucky for us Fagers offers a Sunday brunch from 11am-3pm with a diverse, but simple menu. Live jazz is happening in the dining room while you dine on the deck overlooking the bay. My husband is not a breakfast guy, but loves peppers and spice. It was perfect...he had the Potato and Chorizo Sausage Hash blended with spices which went over more like a lunch and I had the Smokey Tom, two english muffins topped with smoked turkey, eggs benedict and peppers. The potatoes were roasted perfectly and had plenty of seasoning. The omelet menu looked good for those who don't do spicy. If that wasn't enough, we made room to split what we read to be the "Best Bloody Mary on the Beach". Well, I normally don't drink bloody mary's on the beach, but this one was damn good. Again, we opted for the spice, plenty of old bay with our vodka!

So after eating our way through the weekend, I'm back in the hectic days of the real world with no complaints of the beautiful sunshine beckoning me outside. That reminds me, I need to go buy a hammock. Until next time...I will hopefully than be escaping gloomy weather to travel towards the sun. Funny how that works.

EXPLORER, STUDENT, DREAMER

Here it is, the first day of deciding what to write about on my very own blog. I warn you now, I know as much about the "blogging community" as I understand what my dog is trying to tell me. But, I figured after reading many of your blogs over the past months, seems to me it is great for a group of people that enjoy writing or just think they have something to say. So here I am.

So what is this journal o' the Internet all about? Well, I will be going on about my journeys, long and short...near and far. No matter where I go in life, I have found that I learn something new each time. This is an attempt to share that with you.

Life's best education is done through travel. To go to each destination as an explorer and less as a tourist. I hope to learn from the people, their culture, the landscape and the history that each destination presents us.

The many aspects of travel sometimes make being a tourist unavoidable. If at all possible, the research and responsibility one puts into preparing a trip should help us avoid that. I will do my best to also share with you the do's & don'ts, the basics, the tips and the hard facts of what is "good to know, before you go".

My hope is to soon receive emails from other travelers that will share with you the same things. I hope that those travelers are you. Sending me stories, pictures, tips and lessons along the way. As a community, my hope is that together we can find the explorer in each of us.

Been There, Done That.....coming soon

Check back for the journeys of a woman working for the weekend.